Erica Katz, THE BOYS' CLUB

Erica Katz, THE BOYS' CLUB

Erica: I still work at a law firm. It has less to do with any sort of publicity than it does the fact, similar to what I was just saying, so it's great transition, I didn't want the book to be about me. I think it loses its value as soon as people start dismissing it as a true story because people will make assumptions about me. People will start to talk about what firm I'm involved in. I think my next statement might surprise people. I'm worried that it will curtail the honest conversation about the character and the protagonist and where she made mistakes. I wonder if people are just so much more comfortable talking about faults of people who don't exist. I don't want it to be some sort of value judgement on my life. First of all, it's fiction. Second of all, I think people are reluctant to say, god, Alex really made a mistake by doing X, Y, and Z. Where was she wrong? Where did she really mess up? Where was she not a friend of women? Where were she an aggressor to her friends? Things like that. I think fiction is a really beautiful vehicle for doing that. The fact that my life parallels hers in any capacity I think makes people dismiss it as nonfiction.

Elizabeth Kay, SEVEN LIES

Zibby Owens: Elizabeth Kay is the author of Seven Lies which is a fantastic debut thriller. Seven Lies, when it made the submission rounds for the publishers, it became one of the most sought-after novels of the year and was immediately sold all over the world at the London Book Fair. Now there's already a TV deal in place. Publishing rights have been sold in twenty countries. It's gearing up to be a really exciting, much-anticipated summer read, so I had to get it out so you guys could hear about it. Elizabeth Kay works in the publishing industry under a different name. She currently lives in London and has a first-class degree in English literature.

 

Welcome, Elizabeth. Thanks so much for coming on "Moms Don't Have Time to Read Books."

 

Elizabeth Kay: Thank you. Thank you so much for having me.

 

Zibby: I love your accent. I always love doing podcasts with these beautiful British accents. It sounds so official and everything. [laughs] Seven Lies, your book took the world by storm at the London Book Fair. Now it's going to be a TV and movie. It's so good. First of all, tell listeners what it's about and then what inspired you to write it, which is a great story too.

 

Elizabeth: It's the story of seven lies that lead to a death. It starts with two best friends, Jane and Marnie, who've known each other since school. It is organized by the seven lies that Jane tells to Marnie throughout the novel. Along the way, we find out what this death is and how their friendship falls apart and the various strings that have been pulled and released as their relationship has evolved. For me, it was about how childhood friendships can evolve as we become adults and what that can look like and how female friendships can be intense and very overwhelming. That can be a brilliant thing, but it can also be a difficult and very complicated thing at the same time.

 

Zibby: It's so true.

 

Elizabeth: The inspiration for it, how I came to write it.

 

Zibby: Yes, please.

 

Elizabeth: On a practical, how-did-I-write-it note, I'd been writing something else for about three years. I felt like I'd been working at it for absolutely ages. I had rewritten it again and again and changed whole parts of the plot. I never really felt like it was particularly exciting or very strong. It took a long time for me to have the courage to say, actually, I'm going to stop trying. I'd always been told, keep persevering. Keep persevering. Don't give up. It felt like a bit of failure to put that one away. But as soon as I had kind of drawn a line under it, I was able to start thinking about something new. I knew I wanted to write about female friendship. I knew that I wanted it to be very dark and very sinister. The main character is Jane. It's all told from her perspective. Her voice came to me straight away. I so enjoyed being in her head. Once I had her and I felt like I knew her and I knew how she spoke and what she wanted to say, I felt like I was on to something that felt exciting to me.

 

Zibby: It's also so great how you have Jane talk directly to the reader. I always love when that happens in books.

 

Elizabeth: Me too.

 

Zibby: It's so neat because then you're just so in it. You feel complicit in whatever she's doing and thinking. It's an intimacy squared something. [laughs]

 

Elizabeth: I totally agree. That's something that I really enjoy. I really like a first-person narrate. As you say, that sense of being part of their story can be quite enjoyable.

 

Zibby: Yes. There was a passage, the way you write about female friendship -- as a woman, I adore my female friends. I've thought a lot about friendship over the years, as many people have. There's one passage. Hold on, let me just get to it. You wrote, "There is something so enchanting about a first best friend at twelve. It is intoxicating to be so needed, to crave someone so acutely, and to have that feeling of being so completely entwined. But these early bonds are unsustainable, and someday you will choose to extricate yourself from this friendship in the pursuit, instead, of lovers. You will extract yourself limb by limb, bone by bone, memory from memory until you can exist independently, until you are again one person where once you were two." So great. It's just so captivating. That is what happens. You're so enmeshed. My best friend passed away on September 11th.

 

Elizabeth: I'm so sorry.

 

Zibby: Thank you. At the time, we were so -- I try to explain now, and I explain to my husband, "You know how we're so close now? That's what it felt like then." In your early twenties, your best friends are your everything. They're who you talk to. You're just so entwined. When I read this passage, it just made me think of my friend Stacey. It doesn't have to be at twelve. It can be at any point in your life when you meet someone and you become totally hooked together in a way.

 

Elizabeth: You find you're talking to them all the time. There's nothing about your life that they don't know. They know more than your parents, your siblings. Everyone else feels kind of boring by comparison. You just want to be with that person. It is like falling in love, I suppose. I think particularly when you're in that teenage phase, I guess the hormones and everything else make it all that much more intense anyway.

 

Zibby: It's so true. So how did you come up with this structure, which I love also by the way, of the seven lies and each chapter is a lie? How did you come up with that? Was it just a natural development when you were writing it?

 

Elizabeth: I suppose it was a conscious decision. The book I had been writing before had felt really wooly and like I skipped all over the place. I never had enough structure or momentum. I knew I needed to be quite strict with myself this time and not allow myself the space to run away into various ideas without focusing on a central plot. Seven lies felt like an interesting way to hold myself to account. I could never travel too far away because I always had to get back to the next lie in the story. It started for me as quite a practical tool. I'm not really a planner instinctively. I sort of had a vague idea where the middle would be, a vague idea where the end would be. It served as a bit of a roadmap to stop me losing my place.

 

Zibby: That's awesome. I read somewhere that you were inspired by some sort of Broadway show to write this particular story. Did I make that up? [laughs]

 

Elizabeth: No, you didn't that make up. My husband, we were in New York for his birthday in 2018, I think. We went to see Waitress. There is a song in that, "Take it From an Old Man," which is one of characters -- I don't know if you know it -- saying to the other, life is short. Do what you want to do. Have a go. It doesn't matter if you fail. That was the point at which I was like, I have to put down the previous book. I have to draw that line underneath it and I have to try again. It was just one of those moments. The song kind of pushed me to take that leap and to trust my gut and to start afresh.

 

Zibby: Very interesting. Start to finish, how long did this book take?

 

Elizabeth: All in, I think it was about a year or fifteen months including editing, so not too bad given the other was three years and it didn't get very far.

 

Zibby: You work in publishing also.

 

Elizabeth: I do. I'm an editor for Transworld Publishers which is part of Penguin Random House in the UK. That is where I have that editor hat Monday to Friday, and then writer hat Saturday/Sunday.

 

Zibby: Wow. So when did you find time to do this? Was this a before work, after work...?

 

Elizabeth: It was only weekends, actually. I was always really knackered after work. I can never really think creatively or carve out the time for it. I sat down every Saturday and Sunday morning and wrote until I couldn't bear to write another word. Eventually, there were enough words on the page for me to start editing, which is what I prefer doing if I'm honest. Getting the words down felt like a bit of a slog. Then I started to enjoy it from there.

 

Zibby: Your whole life is now books. You're an editor.

 

Elizabeth: I had a baby four months ago, so that's kind of shaken the book bit to the side for the moment.

 

Zibby: Congratulations.

 

Elizabeth: Up until then, it was very much all books.

 

Zibby: Was it something that from a very young age you just knew you loved and wanted to do? How did you discover? I know you had a pivot earlier in your career when you weren’t working in the book world and your husband suggested that you do it, right?

 

Elizabeth: I wrote a lot as a child. I loved writing as a child. I think I stopped at some point in my teenage years. It just stopped being a priority. Then when I was studying, it was always other people's books and thinking about language and form and never writing creatively. It wasn't until after I left university and I started to think, what do I want to do? What sort of job do I want? I found myself in a job that I hated. My husband said, "Well, you like books." I thought, let's give that a go then. I was really fortunate, actually. I landed on my feet in many regards. I managed to get a couple of work experience placements. One of those companies was then hiring for a PA. I was able to apply for that job and then move up from there. It was once I was back in the book world when I was working in books and seeing people writing creatively and doing that as a career, and I suppose seeing how publishing works, I thought I wanted to try it from the other side as well.

 

Zibby: Now that you've done both, what do you think? What was the most useful thing from being on the publishing side that you took into your experience as a writer?

 

Elizabeth: The importance of being able to pitch a book really succinctly. When I'm trying to acquire a book as an editor, I'm always trying to pitch it in one or two lines at the most because I know that the publicists have to go out and talk to the media and be as picky as possible, and the sales team to retailers. It's so, so hard to stand out. That little focus for what that book is and how you can sum it up really briefly and make people feel excited by it, that was something I was aware would be great if I could manage to do that.

 

Zibby: Excellent. What sort of advice would you have, then, to aspiring authors aside from a short and exciting pitch?

 

Elizabeth: I would say based on my experience, don't be afraid to just put something down and start again. If it starts to feel boring, genuinely boring -- I think everything feels boring and hard work at times. That's not necessarily a reason to stop. If it's not exciting you anymore, start again. Try something different. Don't be afraid to do something else for a week or two weeks just to see if that feels like a better fit. I think if I had taken that advice earlier, I probably would've saved myself a lot of time trying to edit something that was never really going to be good enough.

 

Zibby: Tell me about the experience of the sale of this book and what that was like for you emotionally.

 

Elizabeth: It felt ridiculous at the time. It felt so surreal. I was really excited when I signed with my agent. I think she's brilliant. I'd been impressed with her and thought she was wonderful long before I had a relationship with her professionally. I knew that she had done brilliant things for other debut authors. I felt excited that she was going to be the one to send it out. Still, I think I was managing my expectations. When we started getting offers from various countries, it was so hard to make that feel real. I'm still not sure it does feel real, if I'm honest. It feels still very, very strange. It was such a thrill that other people liked it because for so long it's you and a keypad writing away at a laptop. Then to have an agent like it was amazing. Then editors coming on board too is so exciting.

 

Zibby: Tell me a little more about the film and TV news around the book.

 

Elizabeth: Again, that feels crazy. You never quite know if it will come to fruition. It's been optioned. There is a writer currently working on a pilot here in the UK for a potential TV series. Fingers crossed. Who knows? It might be on TV at some point.

 

Zibby: That's so exciting. It's such a perfect transition to a limited series with seven episodes.

 

Elizabeth: I hope so.

 

Zibby: If I were a TV producer, that's what I would do.

 

Elizabeth: I think that's what they’ve been talking about, trying to keep the structure and see what happens. It's one of those things. You hand it over to another creative team and say, do what you can with it. I hope it works for you and it feels exciting and you can do something fresh. I'm just hoping that it will happen. Fingers crossed, certainly.

 

Zibby: What has it been like now having a baby? Are you still trying to write? How has it changed your creative output?

 

Elizabeth: I'm trying. It's not as easy as it was to carve out big chunks of time. I think we're getting into a little bit more of a pattern, getting more sleep now certainly, which means a bit more mental space for thinking, if not actual time. We will see. It feels a very different way to be writing my second book than it did for Seven Lies.

 

Zibby: Can you share what your next book is about?

 

Elizabeth: It's very much in its infancy. I think it will be a similar dark story looking at women in particular. I think it will be focusing on women and anger. It's something that's interested me for quite a while and how we think quite negatively about women who are angry. It's seen as a weakness, perhaps, and kind of an ugly quality in many ways. I feel that there might be something there. We will see. If I can get the words on the page, we'll find out if there is something there after all.

 

Zibby: Fantastic. Thank you so much for chatting with me about your book. I can't wait to watch and see as your career progresses. I feel like you're so young. I don't know how old you are, but you seem young to me. This book is so good. Just the way you wrote it, you don't get lost in the sentences and yet they're still really interesting sentences. They're not too self-conscious. It's clear enough and yet it's still literary, but not in a way where you feel like you're ever out of the flow of it, which I really appreciate. Sometimes the sentences themselves can be a little distracting in their prettiness, almost. This is not like that. You're just so immersed. I'm very grateful for books that really capture my attention and draw me in and get me out of my own mind. Your book is a check plus. Truly, I can't wait to see all of your output. It's exciting.

 

Elizabeth: Thank you. That's so nice to hear. I always say that I can be a bit of a lazy reader sometimes. If I'm not into it really quickly, I find it quite hard to persevere. To know that this was a book that kept you going is lovely.

 

Zibby: Yes, amazing. I see why there's so much attention around it. Anyway, it's very exciting. I'm wishing you all the best.

 

Elizabeth: Thank you so much. Thank you.

 

Zibby: Making sure not to tell any lies because as you point out in the book, the first one, hard to stop. [laughs]

 

Elizabeth: Hard to stop. Thank you very much.

 

Zibby: Bye.

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Kevin Kwan, SEX AND VANITY

Kevin Kwan, SEX AND VANITY

Kevin: I think there's a fascination and a revulsion. I get comments on my Instagram. I see some people, they're like, "We love the story, but we wished the people weren’t so wealthy." I'm like, do you really? Would you actually be interested in reading about them if they were just crazy middle-class Asians? [laughter] That's a whole other book. That's very valid, absolutely. Since the beginning of time, people have been fascinated by power and the people who are at the top of the pyramid beginning with stories of the pharaoh that was passed down through gossip, to stories in the bible about the rich and powerful, to Machiavelli, to Shakespeare. Even during the Spanish flu, people were reading Edith Wharton's book and Henry James's books and escaping into these worlds. What also is important is that I think for people who are not in that one percent, it's kind of gratifying to see that these rich people have problems too. There is a universality to the experience. It brings them down, to bring down these characters to have to reckon with the fates and to have to experience the tragedies and the dramas of their lives. I think people are always riveted by that. Certainly in my books, I go to great lengths -- I'm not glorifying the wealth. I'm just portraying it as I see it. I'm also revealing that in these worlds there are decent people who understand and who realize that they're extremely privileged in a world that's completely full of inequality and who are trying to make a difference.

Kerry Kletter, EAST COAST GIRLS

Kerry Kletter, EAST COAST GIRLS

Kerry: East Coast Girls is about four girls who grew up together. They have this almost familial bond because they came from families that weren’t particularly loving or functioning very well. They found each other and became a pack and kind of raised each other. Then they get to high school and this terrible thing happens to them one night, just a totally tragic thing. They never talk about it. For the next twelve years, they never talk about what happened. Their lives are all derailed in different ways because of this thing that happened to them. Their bond is a little bit fractured because of it. They decide to go back to the last place that they were truly happy, which is these summers they spent together in Montauk when they were girls, and see if they can sort of get back to their own innocence and their connection to each other. Of course, things don't always go as planned. Therein lies the story. The secrets start coming out and things happen.

Marian Keyes, GROWN UPS

Marian Keyes, GROWN UPS

Marian: The thing about Grown Ups is it starts at the end in that all the characters in the book -- they're this glamorous family of three brothers and their wives, their ex-wives, and their adult stepchildren. They're at a dinner party. They spend a lot of time together. They get on very well on the surface. Underneath, things are far more complicated, as they always are with any group of people. Three people have their secrets outed because one of the wives gets a concussion. When I started the book, I knew that I needed secrets. Money is always a good one. Infidelity is always another one. Then I was thinking about, what would I hate to be in a situation? I thought addiction because I'm in recovery for alcoholism and I really understand the secrecy. I don't have an eating disorder. It's really important to say that. I understand the burden of it. The idea of this woman suffering from bulimia came to me. I feel like as eating disorders go, bulimia's a particular brutal one because you hide in plain sight. With other eating disorders at either end of the spectrum, it's evident. Your body is your evidence that you're ill. With bulimia, people kind of trudge on for years and years with this monkey on their back, with their voice in the head, and nobody really knows. I thought it needed to be written about. Luckily, people who have bulimia or who are recovering have read it and they said that I did it accurately, which is really important always. When I write about somebody else's journey or their pain, it's so important to honor it and do it properly.

Kara Kinney Cartwright, JUST DON'T BE AN A*SSHOLE

Kara Kinney Cartwright, JUST DON'T BE AN A*SSHOLE

Kara: My sons are now nineteen and twenty-two. Our nineteen-year-old is home from college with us for the summer. My twenty-two-year-old lives on his own and, knock, knock, employed and all that good stuff. I can't tell you how many ridiculous, ridiculous texts that I send to them. Wash your hands. Save the grannies. Every time I see something on the news, you just get that mom feeling in your heart, like, did I tell them? Do they know? Are they going to do the right thing if they're not in front of me? When my son walks out the door with his -- I know he's going to ride his bike. I yell, "I love your brain." That's how I say wear your helmet. He's nineteen. I can't say wear your helmet, but I'm allowed to say I love your brain. It helps because you just get a second sometimes of their attention. In my family, teasing and sarcasm and humor, that's our love language. It's not for everyone. If your children are suffering from anxiety, you maybe don't want to say to them, straighten up or you're going to live in the basement forever. That might not be the way to go. You have to know your own kid.

Special Re-Release: Jamaica Kincaid, PARTY

Special Re-Release: Jamaica Kincaid, PARTY

Jamaica: How I wrote the story, if you read the story, is that I was making fun of … what we now call -- I didn't have this word for it at the time -- white privilege. The idea of, first of all, of these well-off girls who had lived comfortably some place in New Jersey. They were white. They had nothing in their lives, really. They would look for something wrong. There was something never really wrong. The wrong was an invention. In my story, I was making fun of the nothingness that was in the [Nancy Drew] books.

Lily King, WRITERS & LOVERS

Lily King, WRITERS & LOVERS

Lily: The book is about thirty-one-year-old Casey. It is 1997. She's arrived in Cambridge, Massachusetts. She's gotten a job at a restaurant. She's gotten a terrible place to live, a little room at the side of a garage. She's seventy thousand dollars in debt. She's trying to write her first novel. She's just had her heart badly broken. A few months earlier, her mother died. She's a bit of a mess. She's, at age thirty one, trying to figure out how to find the rest of her life, how to put a life together that looks like a grown-up life, but that doesn't mean that she has to lose her dream of becoming a writer.

Mary Beth Keane, ASK AGAIN, YES

Mary Beth Keane, ASK AGAIN, YES

Mary Beth: It's about two families who end up living next door to one another in a suburb of New York City in the seventies. The book spans about forty years. It begins in the seventies. It ends in 2018. They end up living as neighbors. The dads in both houses are cops. They're sort of bonded by what the dads do for a living. The kids become kind of close, but then this tragic event happens that divides the families, they think, forever. Of course, they are not divided forever. That's not a plot spoiler. You can sort of feel it coming in the prose. It's about how the things that happen to us as kids, the traumas of childhoods, how we end up carrying them into adulthood in strange ways even when we think we're long past those things. There's this situation in the story. I think the story is really about love and how it changes and gets tested and morphs over time, who you have to protect within a love relationship, yourself, the person that you're committed to. It's not just romantic love. It's between siblings, parent and children, and all of the above. Basically, it's what we all go through in a messy life and whether it's worth it or not.

Alicia Keys, MORE MYSELF

Alicia Keys, MORE MYSELF

Alicia: I started to dissect … Different moments in my life were revealing that I was quite oppressed, I would use the word, from the standards of what it is to be a woman, what it is to be a successful woman, what it is to be "beautiful," what it is to be beloved or whatever it is. I started to find myself changing myself or being extra-concerned when I picked up my kids from school. Do I look nice enough to go out with? and all these things that were -- really, I just truly didn't understand how convoluted, how that was affecting me. I didn't even realize that I was that person. I never even thought I was that person. I thought I was super independent and completely a feminist and really strong. I realized, wow, there's so much of me that I'm discovering. That discovery started to uncover parts that I wanted to share and I wanted to think more about and really challenge the way that we're told to be who we think we're supposed to be because we see it in front of us since the day we're born. We don't really get a chance to meet ourselves. That was what I was starting to do. I wanted to share my personal journey with discovering more of myself.

Amy Klein, THE TRYING GAME

Amy Klein, THE TRYING GAME

Amy: I'm a writer and an essayist. I never thought I'd be writing a prescriptive book, but it has a lot of my story when it's relevant in there. I am a health journalist, so I've interviewed a lot of doctors and a lot of patients because I want to help people not make the same mistakes I did. I want to give them answers to the questions. Because there's so much information out there, I want to help them get through the journey. Even if it's something that they show their mother, "Read this book," or show their best friend, "Read this chapter on baby envy. This is why I'm having trouble being happy for you. It's not that I'm not happy for you. It's just that I'm not happy right now, and I want what you have," if that could just make people feel less alone. I say if you think going to all these events is going to make you a better person, like going to a bris, where I had a cry myself in the bathroom stall, if you think going there is going to make you a better person, then go. If you can, try to take care of yourself. I have an article coming out soon about what I learned about infertility is helping me during quarantine.

Mallory Kasdan, ELLA

Mallory Kasdan, ELLA

Mallory: Ella is a parody of Eloise at the Plaza. This was a few years ago. My daughter was six at the time. We were big fans of Eloise. I grew up loving it and thinking, what an amazing life to live in New York City and live in a hotel and have that adventure. Then it was my fortieth birthday. I went to a hotel in Williamsburg that had just opened with my husband. We had a party for me. We left the kids at home. Zoe was six at the time. We were just so psyched to be getting out, having a party, being in a hotel. It was very Brooklyn. It was very hip. There was no sign. It was super groovy. Everything was reclaimed wood and brick. It was an old factory that they made into a hotel. I was just picturing Zoe there and seeing her scootering all around the lobby. I was really glad that she wasn't there, but thinking how funny it would be if she was there mucking up this hipster haven.

Nicole Kear, FOREVERLAND

Nicole Kear, FOREVERLAND

Nicole: Foreverland is about Margaret who's a shy, anxious, eccentric twelve-year-old who's having trouble at home. She runs away to live in an amusement park called Foreverland. When she gets there, she meets Jamie who is also a runaway, though her polar opposite. He and she forge a friendship and have an exciting adventure which is also a transformative journey of self-discovery for both of them.

Bess Kalb, NOBODY WILL TELL YOU THIS BUT ME

Bess Kalb, NOBODY WILL TELL YOU THIS BUT ME

Bess: This book is about my beloved grandmother. I was inspired to write it because she started telling me her life story from the time I was a baby. She passed away in 2017. In an effort to feel close to her again and to bring her back, I decided to tell her life story in her own words in her voice. For me, it was partially a grief-processing exercise and a cathartic way to reconnect to the woman that I loved so much. The real moment when I realized that maybe I am able to channel her in a way that is meaningful to the people who really knew her best was right after she died. I was given the task of delivering a eulogy at her funeral. I tried several different versions of speeches. I remember feeling really frustrated that they were just sort of platitudes. The way that we talk about death can feel almost trite sometimes because we stick to a script. We have a certain vocabulary in discussing the deceased. I found the way to be most authentic about it and the way to really honor her and really be true to her was to deliver the eulogy. I spoke about what she would think of her funeral in her voice to my family. It was such a sad day. The fact that she was a very, very old woman at her passing doesn't at all diminish the enormity of her loss and how very tragic it was. Everyone was upset. No one was coming in ready to laugh, of course. This is a funeral. I skipped mascara. By the end of eulogy, my family was wiping away laughter tears because I knew how my grandmother would've reacted to everybody coming out, having to get dressed, having to figure out what to wear, what to say. I just wise-cracked as her and threw this sort of family roast and brought her back to the people who needed her the most. I realized, wow, I do have her voice. I'm able to bring her back. Maybe there's a bigger literary project here. That's what the book is.

Patrice Karst, THE INVISIBLE STRING

Patrice Karst, THE INVISIBLE STRING

Patrice: No one could have been more surprised than I have been as to the trajectory and just the phenomena that happened with The Invisible String. I wrote it over twenty years ago originally because I was a single working mom. My son was four or five at the time. He would be really sad when I would take him to preschool. He had major separation anxiety. He would cry as I was leaving. Then I would cry. We were both a hot mess. Nothing seemed to work. Me just saying, "I'll be back. Have fun," none of that worked. One day I just told him what was really just obvious to me, but I told him how we would be connected all day long by this invisible string. If he missed me, all he needed to do was tug on it and I would feel it. If I missed him, I would tug on my end of the string and he would feel it. We were connected all day until we saw each other again at night. His eyes just got as big as saucers. He literally -- that was it. It was like, voilà, separation anxiety handled. He said, "Do we really have an invisible string, Mama?" "Yes, we do." That was it. From then on, every morning when I would bring him he'd say, "Mom, I'll be tugging on the string." When I picked him up, he'd say, "Mommy, did you feel me tugging on the string?" Then all his friends asked to hear the story. I told them all. I saw their reaction. I realized that I had something very special here because love is such an abstract idea.

Janice Kaplan, THE GENIUS OF WOMEN

Janice Kaplan, THE GENIUS OF WOMEN

Janice: One of the wonderful women I interviewed, Meg Urry, who had been a NASA scientist and was hired away by Yale to be the first head of the physics department, she was telling me about a meeting she was at at Yale with a group of tenured professors. She started the meeting by asking them all to mention -- it was a group of women tenured professors -- by asking them to all say what they were an expert in. She said the meeting started and the first woman said, "Well, I wouldn't call myself an expert, but my field where I'm really good is..." Each woman did some version of that same comment. Meg said she was outraged. Being a tenured professor means you're an expert in a field. The currency of academia is expertise. Even in something as straightforward as this, women are afraid to say, "Yeah, I'm darn good at this." It's something that I learned as I was doing this book. I've always been self-deprecating. I've always thought it was a way to ingratiate yourself and to make people like you, to be a little bit self-deprecating. I'm not going to do that anymore.

Jamaica Kincaid, PARTY

Jamaica Kincaid, PARTY

Jamaica: I didn't know that people still wrote serious literature. I thought they just wrote penguin detective stories and romances. I didn't know that there was such a thing as writing. I must have always wanted to be an artist or something because I thought I would be a photographer. I studied photography. I began to write out the photographs. It occurred to me then that I'm a writer. I quit the college I was going to in New Hampshire, returned to New York, and started to write. The funny thing about being in America, at least in those days -- I don't know, anymore, what America is like. In those days, whatever you said you were, people said, “Oh, yes. That's what you are because you said so.” I said I was a writer. People said yes. One thing led to the other. Then I started to write for The New Yorker. It’s an improbable tale, but all too true. Every word of it is true.

Richard Kirshenbaum, ROUGE

Richard Kirshenbaum, ROUGE

Richard: Rouge is about the women who created the cosmetic industry, the first multibillion-dollar category founded primarily by women. I have to tell you that I was surprised that there wasn’t really a major novel about the book before. Being an ad man and having run everything from Avon to Revlon, as accounts, and having worked with many, many, many well-known female entrepreneurs, I thought this was the book that I needed to write. It’s really an homage to all the amazing female entrepreneurs who founded this incredible category.

Falguni Kothari, THE OBJECT OF YOUR AFFECTIONS

Falguni Kothari, THE OBJECT OF YOUR AFFECTIONS

Falguni: . I didn't want the typical love trope, two women fighting over a man. That's so done. That's a trope that I don't really like. One of the things that happened was that I know a couple of women who have chosen to have a child through surrogacy. I was speaking to them. I was fascinated by how they came to that point where they needed to have a child through a surrogate. Plus, I have a lot of family in India. It’s actually very common over there for sisters-in-law to have a child for someone who cannot.

John Kenney, LOVE POEMS (FOR MARRIED PEOPLE)

John Kenney, LOVE POEMS (FOR MARRIED PEOPLE)

Zibby: I wanted to discuss Love Poems for Married People first for many reasons. One, because it’s so ridiculously hilarious and I loved it. Two, because Valentine’s Day is around the corner. This is such a perfect giftable item. Everybody should be giving it to their husbands and wives and everything.  (Watch video here.)