Suzanne: I made this vow that I was not going to lie in my journal. It made a huge difference in my life. Just that one decision, to be honest, in this one place, this journal of mine -- I knew I wasn't going to burn it when I got home, but I told myself I could or that I could just leave it in Indonesia in some dumpster or something like that so long as I was really honest. That was the game changer both in terms of learning about myself and my tendencies. Also, I think it's what made me a writer. I'd always been a writer, but this was the first time I was like, if I'm going to be a writer, I have to actually be willing to face what's true for me.