Sen. Gillibrand: I make it up as I go along. Every year I make different refinements on what is necessary to keep me whole this year. Life changes. Your kids change. They get older. You've got to meet their needs in a different way. Every era of being a parent is different. I now have a teenager. Theo is fourteen in high school. It’s very different. Henry’s ten. He's in fifth grade. He's just entering middle school with all those challenges. My kids need different things from me. I try to really meet them where they are and be the best mom I can be.